Admin Mary G, thank you thank you thank you. I cannot say it enough times. My name is Patrick and I am from Nyeri. I am a quiet guy by nature and I do not usually share my personal life with anyone. But I feel like I owe it to other men who are struggling with the same decision I struggled with before I joined this platform. I spent almost three months reading posts on this website before I finally gathered the courage to reach out. Three whole months of going back and forth in my mind. One day I would be ready to try and the next day I would talk myself out of it. My own mother even noticed that something was on my mind and she asked me what was wrong. I could not tell her obviously but the point is that I was overthinking it.
When I finally sent that first message to Admin Mary G, she made everything feel so easy. She did not judge me for taking so long or for asking questions that might have sounded silly. She was kind, she was understanding, and she made sure I was comfortable with every step before we moved forward. The connection she made for me was genuine and it has been going well since then. I am happy and I am grateful.
To every man in Nyeri, in Nairobi, in Mombasa, in any part of this country who is sitting there reading testimonials and still not sure, I want to tell you this. Fear is normal. Doubt is normal. But do not let those feelings control your decisions forever. At some point you have to take a leap of faith and see what happens. And please do not make the mistake of letting your friends or your relatives decide for you. They do not know what you are going through and they do not know what you need. Every human being has different preferences, different dreams, and different reasons for the choices they make. Respect yourself enough to make your own choices. Admin Mary G is the real deal. I would not be writing this if she was not.
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